Moving Foward

Once you're at the end of a  relationship and you decide its time  to move on, make sure you let it go and move on people!

Let me elaborate for you. When people decide to begin a new relationship they must make sure they are ready to be committed to what the future brings. Don't be stuck in the past. 

People need to stop complicating their own lives. I see people stalking their ex partners, I see people sharing memories about the past WHY ??  If  It's over, let it be! Ignore it.

Plus If you are beginning to date it is very uncomfortable and unfair for the next partner to be dealing with any past relationship issues.

It is understandable that when being in a relationship people find  comfort, security and love between partners, and once a person find their confort zone it may be difficult to let go. 

I understand that when two people are in  a long term committed  it is extremely difficult to overcome. Especially now a day you have  technology  like social media that have memory option to remind you of the good time.  It is even worse if you were married, and have children together or in today society Pets. LOL but its true thou.

These are feeling a person must overcome before starting a new relationship.

People say in order to more on you have to through yourself out there. You can forget about her if you sleep with a new girl. while it might be a temporary fix, THIS IS SO WRONG.! 

People cant replace people. People must let your heart heal. 

Some people may take weeks, or months other like myself years, but everyone is different. 

The heart must learn how to regain trust, love and security, depending on the past relationship situation. 

I see people reposting special memory with there ex-boyfriend  while she claims to be extremely happy with her new guy... that is so disrespectful!

Okay if there was a child involve like I do sometimes and tag the kids father when our children did something adorable, but sharing a special couple moment is a big NOOOO.  

That is a memory that you must keep to yourself. 

Plus if you are ready to move on then you should be able to see this memory and feel nothing. I mean you might be happy about it since we are human after all but feel nothing special in other words.

What is your input world? 

I decided to write about this topic because its a common issue. People are hurting other people because they are hurting inside. 

I can continue to write about this topic but I will choose to let it go and move forward :P

Thanks for stopping by,
VQ